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Being Cheap vs. Being Frugal
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Being Cheap vs. Being Frugal

Being Cheap vs. Being Frugal

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There is a huge difference between being cheap, and being frugal. These two words get used interchangeably, when they really are completely different. Yes, there are some things that will cross lines, but for the most part they are very different.

Being Cheap

Cheap means that you never spend any money and watch your money very closely. When you are cheap you spend the least amount of money.

When shopping, you simply are looking for the cheapest cost. When in reality there are many other pieces in play when determining “cost.”

Being cheap is usually driven from a place of scarcity or necessity. You don’t feel in control of your money, so you feel you must hold onto it.

Being Frugal

Being frugal comes from a place of abundance. You have power over your money and know exactly where it is going.

Instead of thinking solely about price, you take into consideration multiple value points. You think about cost, you think about how it helps others, you think about how long it will last.

These are just a few points, but you get the idea. Being frugal is being wise with your money and consciously choosing to be frugal with it.

Being Frugal vs. Being Cheap

An example of the difference between being cheap vs. being frugal that I experienced was bringing water to work. I would buy the cheapest water bottles I could find to refill when I was on the go in graduate school.

I was busy. I worked 8-3 and then had class from 4-7 every single day. I was working full time and attending school full time and making a measly $1,000/month on average.

What I found was that I was needing to buy new ones regularly because they were constantly breaking. I was living in a scarcity mindset because I didn’t have any extra cash each month.

Once I graduated, got my teaching job, and got my finances in order, I was able to move towards an abundance mindset. I no longer needed to live in this scarcity area.

I was able to see the other value points once I moved to an abundance mindset. My low cost water bottles I realized didn’t have much value because they were constantly breaking.

I took this into consideration, along with that they were always made from plastic, and researched higher value water bottles. Now, I’ve had mine for 3 years and it has dents and scratches, but it still serves the purpose of holding water.

This is just one example, but it serves as a reminder that there is a difference between being cheap and being frugal. It is all about the mindset you are currently living from. What are your thoughts about being cheap vs. being frugal?

 

Why You Need to Start Cash Flowing
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Why You Need to Start Cash Flowing

Why You Need to Start Cash Flowing

There are so many terms when it comes to personal finance and so many ways of doing things out there. I mean with a simple search on the Internet you will find endless resources for personal finance and how to go about getting your finances together. The most important is absolutely getting a budget together, cutting expenses, and increasing your income, but it’s also super important to create sinking funds and cash flowing larger expenses.

What is Cash Flowing?

This is one of those terms that is thrown around the personal finance world a lot and it makes sense, it’s super important. Cash flowing is when you have a larger expense and you delay the purchase until you have enough cash saved up for the expense. This tool is used when it is something you didn’t necessarily see coming (unlike a sinking fund that is for known expenses in the future). For example, I am cash flowing a new to me car instead of financing it. Of course, I could go out right now and get a car and finance it, but that would increase my debt. Something I am not interested in doing because I want to live a life of financial independence.

How to Start Cash Flowing.

You’re obviously not going to always use cash flowing, there is a time and a place. If it is a known expense that is happening in the future, like an oil change or yearly membership fee, you should have a sinking fund for it. If it’s something that you need to purchase and have time to save, then cash flow it. I’ll use my example of a new to me car. This isn’t an emergency and I have time to save for it. So, I’m adding money each month to a car fund I created. You need to decide where your priorities are and how quickly you want to cash flow the purchase. For me, I want to have it cash flowed by October, so I am sending a lot of my extra income from side hustles to this fund each month while still sending extra to my debts. Once you have made your decision, you can tweak your budget to find the cash for your purchase. Remember, a budget is not meant to restrict you, but to allow you to make the purchases you want.

Cash flowing has been a total game changer for me and my budget. Just by delaying a purchase until you have the cash to afford it, you can avoid putting yourself into debt. As I said earlier in this post, in order to obtain financial freedom, you can’t be burdened by debt and having to pay companies for past purchases with interest. Have you ever cash flowed a purchase?

Frugal Date Ideas
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Frugal Date Ideas

Frugal Date Ideas

As a twenty something it can be a bit challenging to be on a debt free journey because most twenty somethings aren’t doing anything like this. Most are out exploring new cities, traveling the world, and trying out the newest restaurants. And I’m not saying you shouldn’t do these things because I have totally done this by putting it into the budget or cash flowing a frugal vacation. A really tough area in the budget is finding date ideas that aren’t going to break the budget. I know I struggle with this a lot and I feel like I finally have a handle on ways to enjoy date night without completely blowing the budget.

Frugal Date Idea #1 Go For a Hike

I love being outside and I love being active. One of my favorite date ideas is going hiking because it’s free other than gas and it’s great exercise. I always pack a backpack before heading out with snacks and drinks so we aren’t tempted to buy anything.

Frugal Date Idea #2 Movie Night

It’s so much fun to go to the movies, but sooo expensive. I can’t believe how much they charge at the movies now, it’s absolutely mind blowing. But, it is fun watching the new movies. Of course, you won’t get to see movies as soon as they come out, but having a movie night at home can be super enjoyable. Make lots of popcorn, get drinks ready, and enjoy a great movie together. Even better, you can wear pajamas! 🙂

Frugal Date Idea #3 Cook Dinner Together

Of course it’s always enjoyable to go out to eat, but it can very quickly become expensive for just one meal. It’s so much cheaper to cook a meal at home and enjoy it together. This way you can control the cost based on your budget and control the ingredients. This makes it better for your budget and your health.

Frugal Date Idea #4 Go to the Beach

This can get expensive if you don’t prepare properly. But, pack a cooler full of food, snacks, and drinks and that should make it much more affordable. Also, parking can be very expensive, but if you park a little further, it’s usually cheaper and if you invite another couple to come with then you can split parking.

Frugal Date Idea #5 Work Out Together

Yes, this isn’t the most romantic date, but it is so much fun working out together. Whether it’s a run outside or lifting at the gym, it just feels good to be doing something healthy together.

Frugal Date Idea #6 Free Concerts

My town offers free concerts in the park, check out to see if yours does the same. It’s a great way to get out of the house and enjoy some music.

Frugal Date Idea #7 Go For a Picnic

Pack a picnic and head to a park you’ve both never been to. Then you can explore the area afterwards.

Frugal Date Idea #8 Play Board Games

Get a bottle of wine and your favorite board games from your childhood to play together.

It can be fun just thinking of frugal date ideas or ways to have fun without spending a ton. Surprisingly, most activities can be done for a lot less money if you just get creative with how you’re thinking about it. What are some frugal date ideas you have?

5 Tips to Save Money on Gas
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5 Tips to Save Money on Gas

5 Tips to Save Money on Gas

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The summer months usually mean more driving because of the beautiful weather and usually some time off. Unfortunately, gas companies know this and hike their prices up so kindly. Currently, gas prices continue to climb and I’ve been finding myself going over budget basically every month because it keeps increasing. Because of this, I have been focusing more on ways to save money on gas.

1. Don’t Buy Cheap to Save Money on Gas.

I know. This sounds counter productive. But, I learned the hard way the importance of good gas. I’m all about convenience when it comes to gas. So, I always bought gas from the same two gas stations that I passed on my way to work. It was also nice that the price was low. To me, gas is gas and I had no idea that there actually is a difference in quality. My car was running terribly for the last 4 years and the dealership couldn’t figure it out, they just kept replacing the muffler, 3 times, with the issues still happening. Finally, they realized it was due to bad gas and I needed new fuel injectors. Thankfully, they replaced these for free because they had failed to diagnosis the problem for so many years. Now that I am paying more for quality gas, I am noticing that I am getting better gas mileage and I know my car will run better in general.

2. Slow Down to Save Money on Gas.

This has made my gas go so much further for me. I try to keep my speed under 70 MPH on the highway now (I do live in NJ, so this makes me a snail on the highway lol!). It has allowed me to go from averaging 22 MPG to 28 MPG, obviously this in combined with all my tips, but slowing down on the highway has helped the most!

3. Slowly Accelerate to Save Money on Gas.

Along with tip #2, this has also helped me a lot making my gas go further. Whenever I need to accelerate I always do it slowly to burn less gas. Obviously, when you are accelerating it’s going to burn more gas, but by going slowly it helps in lower the amount.

4. Monitor Your MPG to Save Money on Gas.

My car has this wonderful little feature the tells me my MPG and it helps me so much. Whenever I see the number go down I know I am using more gas and maybe I need to adjust how I am driving. I’m a totally visual person, so having this constant reminder is super helpful. If your car doesn’t have this, you can calculate your own MPG when you have the chance.

5. Use a Rewards Card to Save Money on Gas.

One of the best ways I make gas more affordable is by using a rewards credit card (Find out why I use credit cards throughout my debt free journey here). Of course, the only way that this is beneficial and actually saves you money is if you pay your balance in full each month. If you have had credit card debt in the past, I definitely don’t recommend you opening an account just for rewards. It just isn’t worth it. I personally use the Chase Freedom card, which has rotating categories each quarter. The summer is 5% cash back on gas stations, which means I earn money back with each transaction.

These are the tips I have found to save me the most money on gas. I hope these tips can help you to save money on gas. What are some things you have done to save money on gas?

Tips to Make Your Fourth of July Cost Less
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Tips to Make Your Fourth of July Cost Less

Tips to Make Your Fourth of July Cost Less

Holidays usually mean spending money, especially a summer holiday like the Fourth of July. Some people take advantage of the time off from work and head out on vacation. Some people have BBQs to celebrate the occasion. Even though money usually gets spent on holidays, it doesn’t mean a lot has to be. I’m definitely not saying staying home and binge Netflix to save money. Come on, I’m a twenty something, I definitely think you should be enjoying the fun holiday, especially since it’s the Fourth of July! Here are some tips I have for you to spend less this Fourth of July while still having fun!

1. Attend or have a BBQ.

BBQs are the best for the budget. The food you have at a BBQ is generally speaking cheap when you buy it in bulk. If you’re having the BBQ have everyone bring something potluck style, and if you’re attending, then you bring something to share. Potlucks of any kind are my fave during this journey because you get to eat lots of yummy food and socialize, but you don’t have the high cost of going out.

2. BYOB.

The fourth tends to be a holiday that include drinking, which obviously can get expensive. When I go to a BBQ I usually bring myself a couple of drinks and that’s it. Yes, I’m the girl bringing loose cans to a party, but I don’t care! I can’t drink much and this way I can stretch that 6 or 12 pack over multiple occasions.

3. Free fireworks.

With a quick google search you can find local, free fireworks in your area. Yes, setting off your own and having sparklers is a lot of fun, but it does cost money. The free fireworks are usually pretty great and much bigger than you can buy.

What are some tips you have to save money on the Fourth of July?

How to Make More Money in Side Hustles
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How to Make More Money in Side Hustles

How to Make More Money in Side Hustles

I started researching about paying off debt when I was in grad school in 2015. When I graduated, I got serious about paying off my debt. I had my budget under control for the most part, but knew I needed to make more money than my teaching salary to really make some movement in my debt free journey. That was November of 2015 and I started to brainstorm how I could make more money and now, almost 3 years later, I’m averaging between $1,200 and $1,500 extra every month just from my side hustles. Now I can live off of my side hustle money with some left over, making my paycheck from my teaching job completely go to debt. Follow my steps to increase your side hustle income.

1. Be realistic with your schedule.

When I decided I wanted to make more money, I sat down and figured out when I could realistically be available for side hustles. It’s important to know your schedule and what you can realistically do because that will help you figure out what side hustles you can do. It’s also important to not stretch yourself too thin, make sure you provide yourself with enough time to take care of yourself. Increasing income is important, but your health is so much more important.

2. List out all of your passions.

This is one of the most important parts of truly making side hustles work. I work a lot of extra hours and if I didn’t love my side hustles, I’d never want to be doing it. Sure, you can find jobs to just make money, that’s definitely going to work, but when you start adding a lot of extra hours, you’re going to burn out if you hate it. I tutor in many different ways, babysit, and blog. I love all of them, so when I work an extra 20 hours a week in my side hustles, I don’t mind as much. Once you have your list, figure out if there are any ways to turn your passions into side hustles.

3. Find multiple side hustles.

The biggest change I made to increase my income was diversifying my side hustle income streams. Sure, I was making some money from tutoring privately, but once I added other streams, my income tripled from my side hustles. I found more ways to tutor that allowed me to make more money, but not add a ton of extra work on my part outside the actual tutoring time.

4. Get creative with your time.

Once I started looking at my time differently, I was able to find more time in my day to double dip on my side hustles. For example, my school was in need of after school reading tutors and 30 minutes of the program were during my required contract time anyway. So, I got paid extra when I already needed to be there. Another way is when I’m babysitting and the kids have gone to bed, I work on my blog.

These are some of the ways that I have found to make more money in side hustles. I love having multiple side hustles jobs and it truly has changed my debt free journey complete. Without side hustles, I would still be looking at a debt free date of my 31st birthday when now I’m pushing to be debt free by my 29th, maybe even get it before then. What are your best side hustle tips?

Buying in Bulk
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Buying in Bulk (Even Though I’m Single)

Buying in Bulk

Throughout this process I have found many ways to cut my spending, which is one of the ways to increase your wealth (or in my case, pay off my student loans). In order to make more money, you need to cut spending, increase your income, or do a combination of the two, which is what I have been doing. I’ve added many different streams of income that have allowed me to now live on my side hustle income and then put some towards my debt on top of my salary. But one of the best ways I have saved money is by buying in bulk, even though it’s just me, myself and I.

Now, this might sound crazy, but it really does save me a decent amount each month by buying the family size or bulk size. The reason this works is because the prices are almost always lower on the bulk and family size of products. To save even more money, you can buy the generic version of the bulk products. So, if you’re only buying for one, you really get a great deal from it, as long as you are smart about the items you buy in bulk.

Obviously there are certain things you just aren’t going to buy in bulk because you just can’t use them fast enough. For me, I never buy my greens in bulk, like spinach. This is because I can never use it before it goes bad. There is nothing worse than throwing out food. I feel like I’m just tossing my money in the garbage every time I have to.

There is a way to get around this and this one thing will be your best friend when buying in bulk, your freezer. I put everything in the freezer, it’s such an incredible way to stretch your grocery budget when buying in bulk. I always bulk buy things that can be put in the freezer and easily thawed. Another thing I like to do is freeze any fruits and veggies before they go bad. I find it so easy to throw some smoothie bags together of foods that are about to go bad. This way the food is saved and I can quickly make a smoothie just by dumping the bag into the blender.

Buying in bulk has allowed me to add extra savings to my grocery budget every single month. The less I spend, the more money I can put to my student loans. Every little bit counts. Do you buy in bulk? How has it helped your grocery budget?

Why You Need Sinking Funds
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Why You Need Sinking Funds

Why You Need Sinking Funds

When I found Dave Ramsey about 3 years ago I was all about it and I loved that there were steps for me to follow. Fast forward a few years and I have definitely tweaked the system to fit my needs, but generally follow them. The scariest part for me was only having a $1,000 emergency fund for baby step #1. I mean, I live in New Jersey, a trip to get an oil change one time ended up costing me $1,000. The first thing I did was bump up my emergency fund to be $2,000, it just makes me feel so much better just in case something were to happen. Eventually I found sinking funds, too. This was actually life changing for my budget and my stress level.

What is a sinking fund?

I had no idea what a sinking fund was when I started this journey. I mean you heard about my car situation and literally blowing my entire emergency fund just on a trip to the mechanic, which never would have happened if I had a sinking fund. A sinking fund is when you set money aside each month for an upcoming expense. This is for things that you know are coming and have time to prepare for. By setting aside small amounts of money each month, the large expense doesn’t hit your budget as hard when the time comes.

How to start a sinking fund

This was tricky for me in the beginning. I knew it would be better for my budget in the long run to put small amounts aside for my upcoming expenses, but it was hard not putting that money to debt. However, the first time I actually used money from a sinking fund, it was a total game changer for me. In order to set up a sinking fund you need to figure out how much you are going to need and when you will need the money. For example, I know I’m going to need new tires and was told probably around the end of summer. I’m over estimating my tires to cost me $600 because I would rather have money left over and just put it towards debt after, then not have enough and scramble trying to find money. I started the sinking fund in February, so I have 7 months to save. I divide the total cost, $600, by the amount of months I have to save, 7 months, and I know I have to set aside $86 each month for my tire sinking fund. $86 is a lot easier than $600 in one month. Or, I save $3,000 for the summer when my income is not set, since I am a 10 month employee. I divide $3,000 over 10 months and put aside $300 each month. By the time summer comes around I have $3,000 in my account to use in case my income is lower than expected. At the end of the summer, I make a loan payment with whatever is left over.

Sinking funds have completely changed my finances because I no longer have to pull from my student loan extra payment when something major comes up. Now, my emergency fund is truly for emergencies and not just for big items that come up, like tires or brakes. How have sinking funds changed your budget?

Switching to Generic Brands
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Switching to Generic Brands

Switching to Generic Brands

I was always a die hard name brand girl for as long as I could remember. I’m not sure if it was because of my parents, or just I felt like it was what everyone did though. For some reason, if I was grocery shopping or shopping in the pharmacy, I felt like I had to buy the name brands. Then, I started getting my financial life in order and wanted to find all the ways to lower my monthly expenses. That’s when I realized how easily I could save money just by switching to the generic or store brands. So, I quickly made the switch and realized my life continued on as normal.

Saving Money with Generic Brands

If you are like me, I never used generic brands. I’m not sure why, but I always thought the quality wasn’t as good as the name brand products. I was completely mistaken though. I have pretty sensitive skin and I assumed the generic would cause my skin to get irritated, but that wasn’t the case. The generic brands are exactly like the name brands, but so much cheaper. Of course, for some people, it’s not going to work. But that comes with anything, even name brands. I also have found that I can get a lot better deals on the store name brands. I’m constantly finding buy one get one free on the generic and store brands, totally worth it!!

More Coupons on Generic Brands

I was very surprised to find that a lot of stores offer extra coupons when you buy their brand products. I don’t know why I found this surprising, the store is making more money by offering you that coupon! For example, I shop at Wegmans and they regularly offer a coupon for any Wegmans Organic purchase. I’m going to buy my organic groceries regardless, by buying the store brand it is usually cheaper and now I get to add an additional coupon. The savings are wonderful just by sticking to generic brands instead of the name brands.

Like I have recently been sharing, I’m all about finding ways to save money within my different areas of my budget. I tried tackling my entire budget in the beginning and totally failed. Once I started focusing on single categories, I was so much more successful. One way I have saved money in my grocery and toiletries budget is by switching to generic brands and this didn’t require any change to my life style. Have you switched to generic brands? Did you notice any difference?

Why You Need to Meal Prep
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Why You Need to Meal Prep

Why You Need to Meal Prep

Trying to tackle buying food can be quite the task. I’m just buying for my self and I find it challenging at times, so I can’t imagine what it is like for a family. When I started my debt free journey, my grocery spending was out of control, price wise and being just total junk. It was bad and I definitely needed to make over my entire grocery budget and what I bought. I decided to switch to organic and knew that it would increase my budget (but lower other budget categories, find out more here), so I had to find ways to save money in other ways. That’s when I found the wonderful world of meal prep and here’s why you need to also meal prep.

#1 Healthier

There is no doubt that when you meal prep you will eat healthier. Whenever I get home from a long day of work and side hustles, the absolute last thing I want to do is cook a meal. Before meal prepping, I’d end up eating whatever took the least amount of work to make, which usually meant junk. Once I had meals prepped, I’d just have to pop it in the microwave or oven and I was eating a well balanced, healthy meal with minimal work.

#2 Lower Grocery Budget

Of course, you’re going to save money if you meal prep in your grocery budget. I wrote a whole post just on lowering your grocery budget, but it is obvious that you would with meal prepping. When you meal prep, you no longer wander aimlessly around the store, but shop with a list of items you need for the meals you are going to prep. I personally go to Wegmans and through their app I can make my list, which also tells me where to find the item and organizes it in the order it is found in the store. This has seriously saved my budget because I go directly to those sections and don’t wander the store looking for what aisle everything is found in.

#3 Eat Out Less

This was huge for me because if I wasn’t throwing together some junk food for dinner, I was definitely stopping on my way home, or getting delivery. When you have all of your meals prepped at home, you’re going to eat them because you don’t want them to go bad. Once again, you’re going to save money by not eating out or ordering food by meal prepping.

#4 Save Time

Not only will you save money by meal prepping, but you will save so much time throughout the week. Of course, you’re going to need to spend some time making your meals, my day is Sunday. But when you’re making large amounts of meals it saves time then cooking each night. For example, I will cook a bunch of tofu that will last me a few nights on Sunday instead of cooking a small amount each night. I save time throughout the week by spending time cooking on Sundays.

When I learned about meal prepping and how to meal prep, it completely changed my life. I know this sounds a bit dramatic, but I was able to get a handle on my health, my money, and my time. It really is a wonderful way to help with a crazy schedule, get healthy, and save some serious cash. Do you meal prep? What is your opinion of meal prepping?